The Natural

Each new location brought with it new challenges and a whole array of new encounters. I was consistently astounded by the natural beauty and femininity of Eastern European women. They have a certain grace that is hard to find here in the UK, and they definitely know what a real man looks like. Little indirect tricks and games won't work here, you either evolve and get your shit together or you're. This really did show me what it was to be truly "Natural" in your intent and execution.

Where James and Grant differ is that they are not coming from a place of inferiority. They don't define "game" as a set of processes and equations that one replicates like a set formula. What they have given me is a formless framework that allows me to seek out my own goals and has taught me how to be a stronger man. Deep down, I never wanted to be a robotic club god who gets his kicks from writing flamboyant lay reports so that I can get my validation from other guys. I seek to be a discrete seducer that brings adventure into the women I choose to enter my life.

Over the course of this journey I have had many lasting experiences and developed what I feel to be an extremely healthy and open view towards sex and women. There were times when we all hit rock bottom, even Grant and James, but that's only human. I learnt that confidence is always in flux and the measure of the man is how he deals with those lows. Fortunately the strong sense of camaraderie we'd all forged made this one of the greatest journeys I've ever been. We had all forged very strong bonds in the group and that is as much a part of masculinity as getting women.

Grant and James are very different individuals and are able to explore vastly different concepts with you. Together they offer one of the most holistic programs available. Both are completely crazy and will keep you in stitches for hours, whilst their sincerity and blunt honesty will keep you on the right path throughout your transformation. As The Naturals, they a level of coaching and personal attention truly unparalleled in this industry and their dedication to their students will surely be their undoing.

The six of us met up in Prague and exchanged stories of where we'd come from and why we'd come. As well as going out and meeting strangers by day and night, we were given around six specific secret challenges to carry out in Prague. I was with Grant that day, and the instructions were delivered in writing, not discussed and we were observed but not helped, needing to be performed with little delay or thought. I was expecting 'extreme' and was not disappointed. I managed to do 5 of them with difficulty; we debriefed and found we had different strengths and weaknesses. The exercises were mostly not specifically about women but were well linked to common problems men have meeting and pursuing women. I made some definite gains and realisations for the good that day.

James did a good imitation of the accent of the gorgeous but cold-on-the-surface eastern European women we met in Prague; it made them seem less scary seeing them mocked like this! ( in a friendly way..) All in all, there were many experiences along the trip which through doing I managed to unlearn unhelpful fear. Another cool thing which occurred in Prague is meeting a large group of American women on the streets and ending up at their apartment half an hour later.

I was hell-bent on braking a drought on this trip and met and clicked with a Scandanavian girl on about our second night in Prague. We always helped each other with dating logistics, being united on the same true and noble cause. After my first meeting with her, the instructors and team offered help with correcting my texting and phone communication. I was not far off the mark, but women definitely try to escape like a fish on the hook. They are testing us and I was very seriously sick and tired of always failing their tests. Without the teams help I think this one would have got away.

We took a train to Budapest. There we attended a large nightclub till 6am several nights, but the highlight of the trip was a daytime trip to the baths. It was news to me that Hungary and some of its neighbours have seismic activity, and the baths were one of several associated attractions. We met many gorgeous women in and around the swimming pool, especially Russians. Hungary was the only place along the trip where we had some language issues. Still, humans have been breeding before they had language, and Grant encouraged us to persist despite language problems.

Then we took a train to Zagreb, Croatia, which for me was probably the most memorable location of the trip. The city had very many malls closed off with thousands of people drinking coffee or alcohol by day in the warm Summer. There was a large square in the centre again with lots of people loitering and meeting up, with a tram line running through it. We had all practised day approaching but in Zagreb Grant gave us a good demonstration of how it can be done, stopping two tall girls who turned out to be Croatian students in the street, and luring them to join us in a cafe and later on a clothes shopping trip. I also have a specific memory of watching Grant approach, or rather hunt down a tall brunette in the city square. I couldn't hear it but there was something about his body language, gesticulation.. which was nothing hocus pocus, but seemed very powerful and correct, as he talked to her. James gave me about five hours of very important one on one help on my weakness which was around approaching women on the streets during the day. James and Grant helped me fix up my walk to make it more attractive. The instructors certainly gave individual attention to each of us as needed with our various sticking points. I did some things again that I'd never done before in Zagreb, joining women by day in a cafe, and approaching women on the beach of a lake sunbaking while we were all lightly clad and having it go well. There was an extreme amount of fear in this but with the instructors help I managed to make both of them work, and it really unwires your fear when you push through it and then have a success or positive response.

We then took a flight to Dubrovnik, a very old fortified town on the Adriatic sea. It was more an unwinding stay, less of a mission so we took in the scenery, but I do recall some further discussion with James on an island off Dubrovnik about details of having a conversation which establishes the needed connection, how to listen and how to find out a woman's life passions, and the importance of creating a conversational space where a woman feels safe to tell you and act on her secret desires. For the second time in my life, the first being a few days earlier in Zagreb, I joined a couple of women in a cafe and had a fruitful interaction, aussie girls this time.

After a bus and ferry ride we reached the island of Hvar. Here we spent evenings at the famous bar Carpe Diem and continued to eat delicious thin crusted pizzas. Another guy from our team hit it off with a very hot Swedish girl. I had noticed along the trip, he'd gained so much daytime ability it was enviable.. We toured the island on scooters. James helped me further with reducing my hesitation time which I saw as a serious sticking point. I left the group a day early back in Split on the Croatian mainland to catch a flight to spend more time with my girl in Finland before flying back to the other side of the world.

My eyes are opened, I have seen what is possible with women. Grant and James showed us amazing ways to interact with strangers; they make it look easy. The overall philosophy of positivity is something I'm absorbing from the naturals. Grant has forbidden me to use the words "depressed", "negative", "pessimistic",or "upset" and told us there is no such thing as 'try', just 'do'.

I clearly remember stepping off the plane in London, not exactly knowing what I had gotten myself into. Was it true that Europe was full of the most beautiful, feminine, and most sexually charged women in the world as claimed by The Naturals, or was this just part of some marketing gurus' mastermind plan? Well, here's my story of two of the best weeks of my life.

On arrival at Prague airport I noticed a tall blonde beauty smile at me while we were waiting to collect our bags, I made eye contact back and gave her a small suggestive smile of approval, then disappeared to get some local currency. Out of the blue, I walked up and stood next to her and asked her what the correct time zone was. We talked for a while and then I suggested that we should get together some time, so we exchanged phone numbers. Ok, excuse me, but Holly Shit!! I have not once in my life done a day game approach before, and now I had just number closed a Czech model like beauty, and the Euro Trip had not even started... things were looking good.

My first taste of the real Prague was just getting better. Coming out of the subway, carting my luggage up an escalator, I saw what I would describe as one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen in my life. She had bright flowing blonde hair, delicious lips, a petite well looked after body, and she dressed with pure European funk, with a very cool pair of designer sunglasses wrapped around her head. I admired her momentarily, then wondered how good it would be to run into her again. To my luck, she walked up and brushed passed me on the escalator, so I figured what the hell, and said "Excuse me, I need directions to this hotel, can you help?" Then, I held out a map to her with my hotel name written on it. She welcomed me with the enthusiasm that only a rock star would receive. She took her sunglasses off to reveal the most amazing grey marble sky blue eyes I have ever seen, ah her eyes. And she spoke English well. She helped me with my bags at the top of the escalator, and actually kino'ed me on the arm while she pointed me in the right direction, and then she went her way. Damn, I let her go. But that's ok, the smile on my face just became unusually wide with what I had just stepped into.

After a quick freshen up in the hotel, and checking in with The Naturals on the phone, I decided it was time to chill by myself before the first day of the Euro Tour, an adventure that was sure to change my life forever. I sat down in a central cafe and ordered a 500 ml local Czech beer. And then it all started. 1,2,3,4,5... I would have counted at least 25 of the most amazing model looking women that I have ever seen in my life in the space of an hour. It was late Monday afternoon, and they were all just walking around getting on with their daily shopping. They were all by themselves as well, and not afraid to throw a smile in my direction. Perhaps they wanted me to approach them? No, I didn't have the confidence yet, but the feeling that it was going to happen soon was pure bliss. It is here in Prague, my friends, that I had an epiphany, and that was to fall in love with as many European women as I could. And from this day on and the next day forward, my thoughts started to become a reality. Let me tell you how...

Our coaches, James and Grant had thought this trip out well, it was evident from the quality of the accommodation through to the transportation and schedule of events and activities. As for the locations, and judging from the calibre of the women, James had done his research very, very well. After our initial meet up and bonding session, we were ready to tackle the streets, clubs, bars, restaurants, etc. Day one was set full of challenges for us to break down any barriers that we may have had. And I mean BREAK DOWN!! I got through about 9 of the 10 challenges, from begging for money in front of the Luis Vuitton store on the high end street of Prague, to writing about who I am and what values I have as a person, and telling them to a complete stranger, and subsequently picking them up (two beautiful Portuguese girls that were holidaying in Prague). The first few days were really about getting out of my comfort zone, about breaking through the pain barrier, and pushing myself even further beyond a feeling I even knew I had. The first day was so incredibly mind opening that I was consistently opening models, 9's and 10's on the street during the day, getting their numbers, and even later dating them.

After Prague, we ploughed through eastern European countries, and along majestic coastline of Southern Croatia in search of the perfect female, and the perfect pick up. There were beauties everywhere. Seriously, they were everywhere. And of course under the instruction of James and Grant, we were more than happy to approach these women, converse with them, learn from them, explore them, and share some truly wonderful intimate times with them. These women are like no other in the world, they elevated me to new heights of self-realization and potential, and they displayed such a passionate femininity that you could easily chase them your whole life. From these women I learned that they value a man who is direct about his intentions, a man that is not afraid of women, and I realized that they do really want to know a bit about you, to develop a connection, before they decide to sleep with you. So this directness, the pure love of women, comfort and rapport, these are all some of the concepts that you may know well from what you have read, but you will only truly understand what they mean when you practice them first hand, with women like these. So just take you're nearest pick my friends, grab that beautiful model's hand, and learn for real. Just make sure you take James and Grant with you. Where would I have been without these guys?

As for James and Grant, well, I couldn't have spent my time with two better guys. They provided me with constant refinement, and as they came to know and understand me better on a personal basis, they could see where my strengths and weaknesses were. They helped me to capture those strengths and build me into a seduction giant, while destroying the weaknesses that had always pulled me away from what should be mine. On a personal level, and a friendship level, I bonded closely with both James and Grant, and shared many humorous and crazy moments with both of them. I'm serious, while in game with these two, I don't think I have ever done as many crazy things with women in my life. It made me realize that it's not all that hard, that's its ok to have fun seducing women. And that I did, several times over. They are terrific guys, with a lot of warmth to give, and they both have a lot to offer this world. The friendships forged with them and the other guys on tour will never be forgotten. It was such a mixed bag of intoxicating characters, but that variety is what made it so enjoyable. While many of us were on different seduction levels, we learned as one, a brotherhood of top seducers.

James and Grant, whilst one and very alike, are still two very different coaches. They both have a passion for what they teach, and they both had a burning desire to see me succeed in all elements of seduction, in becoming a better and natural lover of women. James has an immense understanding of women, of what makes them tick, and his game is more of an indirect style, a true Casanova in the making. Grant, while also knowing his women well, is the master of direct game, and some of the things that he taught me would shatter the pillars of modern society as we know it. This guy is ruthless in his game, a lone wolf that gets what he wants with women. Combine the experience and knowledge of these two guys, and it's near impossible that you could fail. Throughout the whole two week tour, they were there for everyone, fighting through all the misconceptions and inhibitions of our minds. They were warriors fighting for our cause, to become real men, men who were not afraid of women, but men who loved women as well. To me that was the magic pill, more than a quick fix, and it opened up a dusty doorway hidden in the cobwebs of my mind that I never really knew was there. Never had I imagined so many successful approaches, interactions and dates with model like women. And as for the intimate encounters, well, that one stays between me and her, and the bed covers. The legacy of what they taught me, from what I learned from them, will live on in my mind forever. The question now is, are there enough women?

A truly unique and transformational experience. Being immersed in such a way and confronting you barriers day in day out instils principles that a bootcamp just can't begin to tap.

All aspects of becoming a seducer are explored and in a way that works with our own unique desires and core beliefs. I felt that they genuinely wanted to drill down to who we were and give us the bespoke guidance needed to emerge as the men we wish to be. And through a series of exercises we were constantly tested to our limits.

The environment was perfect for this kind of learning. Every day you are bombarded with the most beautiful women in the western world. Coming from the UK, their beauty, femininity and grace was a most welcome change. Countless opportunities would present themselves everywhere we went. We worked bars, hotels, parks, landmarks, shops, trains, boats, beaches, baths, subways... It was relentless.

What's more, they were by no means easy either. Eastern Bloc women know what a real man looks like and by the sheer need to evolve or die, we all had to step up each and everyday. And James and Grant were there to call out our bullshit every time we need it. Their commitment to our learning was nothing short of heroic; they went far beyond the call of duty for us all.

Their attention to our learning was first class and I personally felt that having such a wealth of experience to draw upon was really where the real value of this trip lies. They both have quite different approaches to seduction, Grant being the direct club god able to ramp up fast attraction and close discretely before any one is the wiser, and James, the classic lover who constructs harems of stunning intelligent women of high quality. Watching them in action completely shifted my worldview. By the end of the trip my dreams are now firmly in my realm of possibility and I strive for them everyday.

These are not ex-nerds who learnt some fancy tricks from a book, they are naturals through and through. They live and breath what they preach and after learning from them I feel the most effective way to gain powerful beliefs is directly from those who have it engrained in them and not from those who've had them crow bared in with a bit of NLP.

For the amount of time we spent in field with them and for the strong sense of camaraderie and memories (e.g. blagging my way out of getting arrested), it was fantastic value for money. I am by no means a complete product but I am definitely on the path to so many great adventures.