Reviews
Carl, 37. Melbourne, Nov 2011
Rob Euro Tour Review 2011,1st October 2011
Fucking crazy!!! These are the highlights that have been burned into my mind.
On the first day we hit the streets of Prague to work on some social freedom exercises to enhance our understanding of reality and how far we can break social norms and live in complete freedom. One of the exercises was to walk up to people, ask for directions and to shove a finger up your nose, you get bonus points if you managed to get the person to shake your hand at the end. I pissed myself laughing when one of the students had a shady money dealer come up to him on the streets and attempt to exchange money with him, the student proceeds to pick his nose while chatting to this dodgey guy while he's been looked at in compete disgust. Somehow the student manage to place his dirty hand on the guy's shoulder, and before the student could react, the dodgey exchange guy starts to pick his nose and wipe snot back all over the student. I lost track of time and met a cute little polish girl during my break and we were about to go on an instadate before I realised I had to meetup with the crew again, but we agreed to meet up later that night. After numerous approaches and Sasha's wild dinner stories, I met up with the polish girl while the other guys went to the largest club in Prague. The date went really well, and for the first time in my life I actually had a women trying to impress me with all her cool stories, but her trollish friend was being sour. Fortunately, one of other guys from the tour came to my rescue to battle this mighty behemoth and we ended up getting the girls outside our pimp apartment. The trollish friend decided she had to get up early and I ended up walking them to a cab, and I learned some valuable lessons about the evening.
The next few days in Prague have become a blur with the constant instadates and logistical challenges for day 2s. At one point in the half hour period, one of the coaches Steve pushed me to go on 3 instadates in one and half hour period. During our break later that day, I was texting one of my girls trying to organise a meetup before we left town and before she went back to school, with Steve's help I managed to flip an interaction and meetup with for an hour before she had to complete her assignment. We went to have a quick drink and I used everything James taught us about quick natural escalation, and we ended up feeling each other up while we were making out in the cab ride home.
We ended up in Bratislava and I scored an apartment on the 8th level with this spectacular view of the city. For me as a serial approacher, this was probably the worst thing. I constantly found myself walking out onto the balcony to have a look at the people below. I see this amazing girl who looked like she had it all. I ran down 8 flights of stairs and 2 blocks to meet her, I get her phone number and head back to my apartment. Less than 30 seconds after walking into my room I'm out on the balcony again, I see another hottie and I'm on the chase again. After the epic run down, I lose her and decide to lock the balcony door and contemplate changing rooms with one of the guys as I didn't have the physical endurance to keep running up the stairs.
In Budapest, I fell in love with the city. Hungarian women have eyes which could destroy a man's soul if you gaze into them for too long. After the constant calibration from each of the coaches, this is where I feel like I did the most damage. Steve had such a unique style of coaching and he blew me away when he opened my eyes about how to switch a few key ideas about sexuality and get a women really turned on, and this is what lead me to my success. I proceeded to sleep with a girl who had one of the most sexually charged personalities I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. I also met this girl who turned out to be an absolute psycho and ran out with one of my favourite shirts. I ended up coming back to Budapest and meeting up with the first girl, and she left me with her favorite necklace so I would always remember her. It was a really romantic way to leave, and we both left an emotional impact on each other and even though we're miles apart, we may see each other again in the future.
In Split, we hung out at the beach and met some beautiful women while they're tanning on holiday. Mr Johnny Cooper opened up and explained some more valuable ideas that have shaped my life and how I spend time with the women. By removing the pressure of having sex from an interaction and focusing on letting the good times roll, you're able to create powerful relationships with women. For the next two nights, I was up until 6am bonding with two scottish and english girls who had boyfriends. The difference between now and who I was before this, is that there is no doubt in my mind that things would have esculated to a more sexual nature if the girls had not been so caught up about the ones they loved back home. With one of the girls, we both knew it would be on if the situation were different. During that night, we saw the master himself live in action and at his finest! James helped us get these girls half naked, and we all ended up swimming in a fountain in the middle of a park almost reenacting the opening sequence out of friends.
The training and lessons that James and his fantastic team taught us have helped shaped my life, so I can become a better man. James showed us how to make our interactions sexy by using our intent and body language. Sasha's humor made the trip unforgettable, and it was phenomenal to watch the guy decide he was kidnapping this girl as he picks her up and runs down the street with her. This smoking hot blonde had a smile ear to ear, and we learned how to make interactions playful and amusing. Johnny's amazing perspective on life and being a natural man showed me to remove the idea of "Game" and just live my life as a man. And finally, Steve amazed me the most with our deep discussions of sexuality and really showed me how to unleash the sexual energy inside of me that has left women craving more.
Miss all of you guys already!!
Rob M, Melbourne, 26, Oct 1st 2011
robmellett@gmail.com
Robbie. 24. Melbourne.
I have just had the pleasure of spending 12 days trekking through Eastern Europe with a group of amazing guys and undeniably having the time of my life and experiencing things which I would have never thought were possible.
I had previously done training with The Natural Lifestyles, having completed the Masterclass last year. This course changed my life and without it I don't know where I would be today. These guys gave me direction in life and really made me question the path I was on and forced me to make some big decisions in life. One of these decisions was to delay the start of my career and go traveling in Europe for a couple of months before deciding what I wanted to do with my professional life. I had known about the euro tour for a while and I was keen on incorporating it into my itinerary as I wanted to build on my experience in the masterclass and put my skills to the test infield in an intense manner. After some doubts and hesitation, I signed up and I can tell you all right now, it was well worth the money and has exceeded any sort of expectations I had.
A bit about the tour before I get into my experiences. Myself and 5 other guys were being coached by James, Tim, Liam and Zanna from TNL in Prague, Hungary (Siofok and Budapest) and Belgrade. We spent about 3-4 hours infield each day and the same at night, rotating between coaches so that we got varying degrees of feedback from each of them. We were pushed heavily into approaching girls wherever we were and we weren't allowed to make any excuses. The cost of the tour isn't advertised anywhere as far as i know so I won't reveal the exact amount but I'll say it's closer to five figures than four.
Anyhow, where do I start? I guess I can go through what happened to me in each location and then summarise my experience and progress at the end.
Prague:
Thrown straight into the deep end, we approached hordes of smoking hot women on the street. I ended up chasing girls down the street and stopping them to talk to me, most of them responded favourably and I quickly realised how fun this was and got over any initial nerves. I ended up number closing 3 girls, one of which was an incredibly hot Czech blonde and another was a Ukrainian model whom I met in a shoe store.
That night I messaged all 3 and the Ukrainian was the one who came out to meet me. I invited her to the bar where we were doing our thing and she brought her friend along, I was so nervous that I got James in to wing the friend and keep watch of me. I didn't expect my first date to be with a smoking hot ukrainian model on the very first day of the tour. I did get a grip just in time and eventually found her kissing ME on the dance floor.
Unfortunately I managed to sabotage myself as I didn't extract her at this point as I had an alternate plan which needed to be torn up as soon as she kissed me. When the guys I know here see the photos they will want to kick me in the balls for letting this slip, however looking back now I think I was a bit out of my depth at the time. We were only expected to approach girls on day 1 and here I was getting seduced by a Ukrainian model so naturally I panicked a little inside.
The next day was more of the same, this time by the river. I did less approaches but was becoming more efficient. I number closed 3 girls out of 5 approaches, as opposed to 3 out of 20 on the first day. I got a response from all 3 that night, but had to flake on each of them as I met a Polish girl at a bar who I then extracted to the venue from the night before. This time I extracted her back to my apartment, but yet again failed to pull the trigger in time as I was content with just making sure that I got a girl back to my room this time. I was frustrated at myself but I knew the breakthrough was just around the corner and that I made significant progress already.
Siofok:
A great party town situated on Lake Balaton in Hungary, this place turned out to be amazing in more ways than one.
After a long van ride from Prague (where Zanna opened the door of the moving van to light up a cigarette in front of bemused locals), we hit the various little cafes and clubs that littered the main strip. I number closed a cute German with massive cans, grinded a sexy little Austrian girl and extracted 3 other girls to another club with a mate. I was supposed to meet the German back at the main strip but had to wait till the next day as her friends had to leave.
Next day we did more day game by the beach, I ended up sitting down next to a petite little brunette, and an hour later we went tandem bungee jumping together with her friend and one of the other guys on tour. It was probably the worlds first instant double bungee date lol. I have the whole thing on video.
That night we met more girls on the strip who we exchanged details with for later, but found ourselves locked in with a group of 3 Hungarian girls. All of them had boyfriends but two of them, my girl included, were very much interested in a holiday fling. Problem was that my mate took his girl home, and I was left with mine and her friend who had a moral dilemma and put a stop to it all. All these near misses made me snap and I had to clear my head and walk by the lake for a bit, and speak to James in private, who helped me keep my cool and keep things in perspective.
The final day in this town was supposed to be a rest day for us, but none of us rested. I skipped the day component and spent it chasing up all the leads I had gathered in the previous few days. One of them was very keen to meet that night at midnight, so I decided to catch up with her. She spoke very little English so this made it difficult to communicate with her. It ended up blowing out to the point where she literally left me out on the street alone. I responded by walking into a club and going home with one of the most beautiful girls I have ever met...
and whom I will be seeing again when I head back to Budapest in a few weeks. I had finally made the breakthrough and was ready to tear Europe apart.
Budapest:
More day gaming by the Danube river, which was littered with hotties. I number closed another smoking hot blonde who walked me back towards where i was supposed to be and went on an instant date with a brunette to the castle.
At night we headed to "Bed Beach", one of the most amazing clubs I've ever been to. We were told to ramp things up and go for the kill. I did around 10 approaches this night which didn't stick, but I was unphased as I had so many other options to explore. At the end of the night I walked a cute German back to her hostel and made out with her in the driveway, she put up loads of resistance but the next night I managed to meet up with her again and take her back to my room for an incredible night...
Day 2 in Budapest and we headed to the outdoor thermal baths, meeting more smoking hot Hungarians, Russians, Ukrainians and other assorted nationalities in the pool. The baths were also a great way to relax after a hectic week. I watched zanna in action setting up dates with two of the hottest women I've seen, and began to see how he uses his low energy style to seduce them. I learnt a lot from him on this trip and can definitely see how his lower energy style is just as, if not more effective than a high energy approach to game.
On the final day we had the choice of going shopping to tweak our style or to head to the baths again, I chose the latter and as a result set up meetings that evening with 3 Swedish girls, and the others invited 6 Argentinians also. Unfortunately I had to leave them all that night to meet up with the girl from siofok and spend a night together with her in my very nice apartment. It has been a weird feeling having to turn down women and flake on them, but I don't mind hehe.
Belgrade:
As I have already mentioned, I was absolutely blown away by this city. It is by far the best city I've visited so far in terms of concentration of hot women, it is incredible. Walking along the main strip, you see a conveyor belt of stunning women go by, all of them 6 foot tall and walking as though they were doing a fashion show.
We ate dinner at a magnificent restaurant and headed out to the clubs by the riverside. We asked some locals for advice on where to go, and I ended up going home with one of them later on.
Before that, I met a cool group of young serbian girls, who myself, Tim and Liam would spend the next two days with, roaming the streets of Belgrade and smoking Turkish pipes with in a cool little underground bar. Unfortunately the logistics were very difficult with my girl, I came so close to extracting her to my room, but had to settle for a goodbye kiss instead.
The nightlife here was amazing, the clubs would put anything in Melbourne to shame, and I had to settle down for a while and come to terms with the calibre of women present. If you ever venture to Belgrade (and you should), head to a club called Blaywatch, but be warned, you may not recover from your experience.
The unfortunate thing was that by the time I had reached Belgrade, I was severely burnt out. In the 3 days beforehand, I had slept with 3 different girls. I needed a break, I couldn't keep this sort of intensity up, I had to plead with the coaches to allow me to skip the day sessions. I was too drained physically and mentally as I had pushed myself so hard, and as a result missed an opportunity to meet more beautiful Serbian women. Next time I will spend a lot more time there and really do some damage.
The tour ended with a nice dinner in the trendy medieval area of Belgrade, a group of girls were there also, including a sexy Serbian and her friend: A Hawaiian of Japanese origin who lives in California and can speak serbian. She was in her 30s and approaching 40, had a porsche 911, fake implants and a seductive personality. She eyed me off immediately and bought me at an "auction" that tim organised. Zanna was infatuated with her friend and they were embracing like passionate lovers, so I decided to help him out and occupy the friend, I felt that I owed him for the previous 12 days and wanted to make sure he ended the tour on a high note also, as the coaches were very professional and resisted the urge to let us go so they can meet girls, and instead focussed on us getting the most out of the tour. In the end I had to politely resist her advances as I just wasn't attracted to her, she would have probably been insane in the bedroom but she just didn't turn me on really. Zanna got what he wanted so I was happy to leave them and dance my way back to the apartment to the tune of Serbian folk music coming from the cafes nearby.
So in summary:
- 3 lays (doubling my lifetime count in 10 days!)
- 20 numbers
- 50+ approaches
- 5 dates
- fun times had by all
- momentum carried onto rest of my holiday so far
At the start of the tour, I said to James: "I don't care if I sleep with one girl or ten girls, I want you guys to corrupt me, I'm tired of being cautious and I want to start pulling the trigger". I certainly managed to achieve this aim, but achieved a lot more and exceeded even my own expectations. I am a changed man, Im finally starting to get how the process works and have a newfound confidence in my interactions with women.
Before the tour, I was getting sporadic results. I had definitely come a long way from 12 months ago, the Masterclass had instilled permanent change in me. I felt more at ease talking to girls, I was finding it a lot easier to have conversations with girls, and started to build my social circle around girls in my life. However, I still had issues in closing the deal with girls and wasn't projecting my intent well. As such, I wasn't getting many solid numbers and had no dates lined up. I also went through a period where I had an identity crisis and questioned my reasons for being here and partaking in this action. I quickly put these issues to bed and made sure that I was going to hit it damn hard and not waste a golden opportunity.
Where do I sit now in these areas? Well, for starters, I am confident that I can go and approach a girl, show my intent right away and understand that if she doesn't respond well, I have saved myself a lot of time and I can walk away without regret and go and approach another girl a few minutes later. I have improved my conversation skills a lot more and I can very quickly build an emotional connection with somebody, and I can do it in a spontaneous manner also. I know how to touch a girl, and when to touch a girl, I know when to lean in, and when to back off and release to build tension even more. I am able to read the situation of the environment whilst in an interaction and work out things like group dynamics and logistics, and form a plan of attack in my mind using this information. I have learned that non verbals are far more important than what you actually say, and have applied this with great success in countries where there can be a significant language barrier. I have increased confidence in the bedroom also as I had several encounters on the trip.
There is no doubt that I have improved, but there is also plenty of room to improve still, I feel as though this is just the beginning of my journey to the next level. I need to carry the momentum throughout the rest of my holiday and most crucially when I return home. I have done well so far in Berlin and London on that front, and also have big plans for when I return home. Stay tuned...
Robbie. 24. Melbourne
Anyone who wants to ask Robbie any questions about the tour, he has set up an account to do so.
You can email him at da_eurotour_2010@hotmail.com
Lance. 28. Orlando, USA. 22nd October 2010
I absolutely cannot recommend the Euro Tour enough. James and his crew have a devastatingly effective model, and are truly expert coaches.
I signed onto the tour having with a woefully sparse history of success with women, mostly due to my own negative beliefs and utter lack of confidence. I even doubted my ability to make it through the entire 10 days of the tour without quitting.
From the beginning, however, I saw that I had put myself in capable hands. The tour was structured to include theory and workshops, day game, night game, and plenty of crazy travel experiences. Through each step, James and his fellow coaches were there for highly personalized attention. Their flexibility was undoubtedly one of their greatest strengths. At times they ordered me in on approaches that I never would have made myself, and at other times they took me aside to talk me through my fears and sticking points one-on-one.
Furthermore, the coaches fostered an atmosphere among the students that was honest, relaxed, and constructive. From the earliest days of the tour, I felt like I was part of an elite group undertaking a life-changing journey. The group constantly radiated positive energy and good times.
I went from approaching about four women in four years to approaching nearly 100 women in 10 days. My previous trips through Europe had largely consisted of me reading in coffee houses or wandering the streets alone, too afraid to talk to any of the beautiful women surrounding me. On the Euro Tour, I had a wealth of experiences that I never would have believed possible for me. One night in Prague I had a girl texting me to meet up who I'd talked to for just 15 minutes that afternoon, while at Lake Balaton in Hungary, I went bungee jumping with a girl an hour after meeting her on the beach.
For me, the most valuable lesson I learned from the Euro Tour was that I could actually do these things myself, rather than watch others do them. James and all the guys helped me to see the extent of my personal qualities, and to begin to put them into effect in order to lead the life I deserve to live.
Lance. 28. Orlando, USA. 22nd October 2010
Zhu Ge. 24. London. 25th July 2008
A month on, my skill with words fails to convey the sense of evolution that I have gone through and the transformations that are still taking place inside my mind. The euro trip has introduced me to a whole new world of possibilities, empowering me to seek out what is rightfully mine by stripping me down to my core and showing me the personal power I possess.
Landing in Prague I had only the loose expectations of wanting choice in my life and relationships. From our first meeting as a group I could tell this was going to be an epic journey for each of us. There was only one rule, “play the game”. This was clearly not the usual pickup bootcamp where instructors just pump your state over a weekend and get you fired up to write a glorious testimonial after a few half arsed victories. Within 24 hours James and Grant had drilled straight down to our deepest fears and broke each of us with a series of challenges designed find our edge. By the end of it we had all had a taste of our limits.
From there it was like being submerged into a world where you lived and breathed to smash through you barriers. Where as before I would only tentatively approach, I soon found myself chasing down the most beautiful, high quality women and expressing my desire with such directness and intent that they simply had to respond.
Each new location brought with it new challenges and a whole array of new encounters. I was consistently astounded by the natural beauty and femininity of Eastern European women. They have a certain grace that is hard to find here in the UK, and they definitely know what a real man looks like. Little indirect tricks and games won’t work here, you either evolve and get your shit together or you’re toast. This really did show me what it was to be truly “Natural” in your intent and execution.
Where James and Grant differ is that they are not coming from a place of inferiority. They don’t define “game” as a set of processes and equations that one replicates like a set formula. What they have given me is a formless framework that allows me to seek out my own goals and has taught me how to be a stronger man. Deep down, I never wanted to be a robotic club god who gets his kicks from writing flamboyant lay reports so that I can get my validation from other guys. I seek to be a discrete seducer that brings adventure into the women I choose to enter my life.
Over the course of this journey I have had many lasting experiences and developed what I feel to be an extremely healthy and open view towards sex and women. There were times when we all hit rock bottom, even Grant and James, but that’s only human. I learnt that confidence is always in flux and the measure of the man is how he deals with those lows. Fortunately the strong sense of camaraderie we’d all forged made this one of the greatest journeys I’ve ever been. We had all forged very strong bonds in the group and that is as much a part of masculinity as getting women.
Grant and James are very different individuals and are able to explore vastly different concepts with you. Together they offer one of the most holistic programs available. Both are completely crazy and will keep you in stitches for hours, whilst their sincerity and blunt honesty will keep you on the right path throughout your transformation. As The Naturals, they a level of coaching and personal attention truly unparalleled in this industry and their dedication to their students will surely be their undoing.
Zhu Ge. 24. London. 25th July 2008
Robert. 30. Melbourne. 28th July 2008
The six of us met up in Prague and exchanged stories of where we’d come from and why we’d come. As well as going out and meeting strangers by day and night, we were given around six specific secret challenges to carry out in Prague. I was with Grant that day, and the instructions were delivered in writing, not discussed and we were observed but not helped, needing to be performed with little delay or thought. I was expecting ‘extreme’ and was not disappointed. I managed to do 5 of them with difficulty; we debriefed and found we had different strengths and weaknesses. The exercises were mostly not specifically about women but were well linked to common problems men have meeting and pursuing women. I made some definite gains and realisations for the good that day.
James did a good imitation of the accent of the gorgeous but cold-on-the-surface eastern European women we met in Prague; it made them seem less scary seeing them mocked like this! ( in a friendly way..) All in all, there were many experiences along the trip which through doing I managed to unlearn unhelpful fear. Another cool thing which occurred in Prague is meeting a large group of American women on the streets and ending up at their apartment half an hour later.
I was hell-bent on breaking a drought on this trip and met and clicked with a Scandanavian girl on about our second night in Prague. We always helped each other with dating logistics, being united on the same true and noble cause. After my first meeting with her, the instructors and team offered help with correcting my texting and phone communication. I was not far off the mark, but women definitely try to escape like a fish on the hook. They are testing us and I was very seriously sick and tired of always failing their tests. Without the teams help I think this one would have got away. As it was, everything went perfectly and I spent a satisfying night with her before heading off to our next stop.
We took a train to Budapest. There we attended a large nightclub till 6am several nights, but the highlight of the trip was a daytime trip to the baths. It was news to me that Hungary and some of its neighbours have seismic activity, and the baths were one of several associated attractions. We met many gorgeous women in and around the swimming pool, especially Russians. Hungary was the only place along the trip where we had some language issues. Still, humans have been breeding before they had language, and the coaching team encouraged us to persist despite language problems.
Then we took a train to Zagreb, Croatia, which for me was probably the most memorable location of the trip. The city had very many malls closed off with thousands of people drinking coffee or alcohol by day in the warm Summer. There was a large square in the centre again with lots of people loitering and meeting up, with a tram line running through it. We had all practised day approaching but in Zagreb James gave us a good demonstration of how it can be done, stopping two tall girls who turned out to be Croatian students in the street, and luring them to join us in a cafe and later on a clothes shopping trip. I also have a specific memory of watching James approach, or rather hunt down a tall brunette in the city square. I couldn’t hear it but there was something about his body language, gesticulation.. which was nothing hocus pocus, but seemed very powerful and correct, as he talked to her. James gave me about five hours of very important one on one help on my weakness which was around approaching women on the streets during the day. James helped me fix up my walk to make it more attractive. The instructors certainly gave individual attention to each of us as needed with our various sticking points. I did some things again that I’d never done before in Zagreb, joining women by day in a cafe, and approaching women on the beach of a lake sunbaking while we were all lightly clad and having it go well. There was an extreme amount of fear in this but with the instructors help I managed to make both of them work, and it really unwires your fear when you push through it and then have a success or positive response.
We then took a flight to Dubrovnik, a very old fortified town on the Adriatic sea. It was more an unwinding stay, less of a mission so we took in the scenery, but I do recall some further discussion with James on an island off Dubrovnik about details of having a conversation which establishes the needed connection, how to listen and how to find out a woman’s life passions, and the importance of creating a conversational space where a woman feels safe to tell you and act on her secret desires. For the second time in my life, the first being a few days earlier in Zagreb, I joined a couple of women in a cafe and had a fruitful interaction, aussie girls this time.
After a bus and ferry ride we reached the island of Hvar. Here we spent evenings at the famous bar Carpe Diem and continued to eat delicious thin crusted pizzas. Another guy from our team hit it off with a very hot Swedish girl. I had noticed along the trip, he’d gained so much daytime ability it was enviable.. We toured the island on scooters. James helped me further with reducing my hesitation time which I saw as a serious sticking point. I left the group a day early back in Split on the Croatian mainland to catch a flight to spend more time with my girl in Finland before flying back to the other side of the world.
My eyes are opened, I have seen what is possible with women. James and the Naturals showed us amazing ways to interact with strangers; they make it look easy. The overall philosophy of positivity is something I’m absorbing from the naturals.
Robert. 30. Melbourne. 28th July 2008
Caz. 31. Melbourne. 5th August 2008
I clearly remember stepping off the plane in London, not exactly knowing what I had gotten myself into. Was it true that Europe was full of the most beautiful, feminine, and most sexually charged women in the world as claimed by The Naturals, or was this just part of some marketing gurus' mastermind plan? Well, here's my story of two of the best weeks of my life.
On arrival at Prague airport I noticed a tall blonde beauty smile at me while we were waiting to collect our bags, I made eye contact back and gave her a small suggestive smile of approval, then disappeared to get some local currency. Out of the blue, I walked up and stood next to her and asked her what the correct time zone was. We talked for a while and then I suggested that we should get together some time, so we exchanged phone numbers. Ok, excuse me, but Holy Shit!! I have not once in my life done a day game approach before, and now I had just number closed a Czech model like beauty, and the Euro Trip had not even started... things were looking good.
My first taste of the real Prague was just getting better. Coming out of the subway, carting my luggage up an escalator, I saw what I would describe as one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen in my life. She had bright flowing blonde hair, delicious lips, a petite well looked after body, and she dressed with pure European funk, with a very cool pair of designer sunglasses wrapped around her head. I admired her momentarily, then wondered how good it would be to run into her again. To my luck, she walked up and brushed passed me on the escalator, so I figured what the hell, and said "Excuse me, I need directions to this hotel, can you help?" Then, I held out a map to her with my hotel name written on it. She welcomed me with the enthusiasm that only a rock star would receive. She took her sunglasses off to reveal the most amazing grey marble sky blue eyes I have ever seen, ah her eyes. And she spoke English well. She helped me with my bags at the top of the escalator, and actually kino'ed me on the arm while she pointed me in the right direction, and then she went her way. Damn, I let her go. But that’s ok, the smile on my face just became unusually wide with what I had just stepped into.
After a quick freshen up in the hotel, and checking in with The Naturals on the phone, I decided it was time to chill by myself before the first day of the Euro Tour, an adventure that was sure to change my life forever. I sat down in a central cafe and ordered a 500 ml local Czech beer. And then it all started. 1,2,3,4,5... I would have counted at least 25 of the most amazing model looking women that I have ever seen in my life in the space of an hour. It was late Monday afternoon, and they were all just walking around getting on with their daily shopping. They were all by themselves as well, and not afraid to throw a smile in my direction. Perhaps they wanted me to approach them? No, I didn’t have the confidence yet, but the feeling that it was going to happen soon was pure bliss. It is here in Prague, my friends, that I had an epiphany, and that was to fall in love with as many European women as I could. And from this day on and the next day forward, my thoughts started to become a reality. Let me tell you how…
Our coaches, James had thought this trip out well, it was evident from the quality of the accommodation through to the transportation and schedule of events and activities. As for the locations, and judging from the caliber of the women, James had done his research very, very well. After our initial meet up and bonding session, we were ready to tackle the streets, clubs, bars, restaurants, etc. Day one was set full of challenges for us to break down any barriers that we may have had. And I mean BREAK DOWN!! I got through about 9 of the 10 challenges, from begging for money in front of the Luis Vuitton store on the high end street of Prague, to writing about who I am and what values I have as a person, and telling them to a complete stranger, and subsequently picking them up (two beautiful Portuguese girls that were holidaying in Prague). The first few days were really about getting out of my comfort zone, about breaking through the pain barrier, and pushing myself even further beyond a feeling I even knew I had. The first day was so incredibly mind opening that I was consistently opening models, 9's and 10's on the street during the day, getting their numbers, and even later dating them.
After Prague, we ploughed through eastern European countries, and along majestic coastline of Sothern Croatia in search of the perfect female, and the perfect pick up. There were beauties everywhere. Seriously, they were everywhere. And of course under the instruction of The Naturals, we were more than happy to approach these women, converse with them, learn from them, explore them, and share some truly wonderful intimate times with them. These women are like no other in the world, they elevated me to new heights of self-realization and potential, and they displayed such a passionate femininity that you could easily chase them your whole life. From these women I learned that they value a man who is direct about his intentions, a man that is not afraid of women, and I realized that they do really want to know a bit about you, to develop a connection, before they decide to sleep with you. So this directness, the pure love of women, comfort and rapport, these are all some of the concepts that you may know well from what you have read, but you will only truly understand what they mean when you practice them first hand, with women like these. So just take your nearest pick my friends, grab that beautiful model's hand, and learn for real. Just make sure you take the Naturals with you. Where would I have been without these guys?
As for James and his crew, well, I couldn't have spent my time with better guys. They provided me with constant refinement, and as they came to know and understand me better on a personal basis, they could see where my strengths and weaknesses were. They helped me to capture those strengths and build me into a seduction giant, while destroying the weaknesses that had always pulled me away from what should be mine. On a personal level, and a friendship level, I bonded closely with them, and shared many humorous and crazy moments with both of them. I’m serious, while in game with these guys, I don’t think I have ever done as many crazy things with women in my life. It made me realize that it’s not all that hard, that’s its ok to have fun seducing women. And that I did, several times over. They are terrific guys, with a lot of warmth to give, and they have a lot to offer this world. The friendships forged with them and the other guys on tour will never be forgotten. It was such a mixed bag of intoxicating characters, but that variety is what made it so enjoyable. While many of us were on different seduction levels, we learned as one, a brotherhood of top seducers.
The coaches have a passion for what they teach, and they had a burning desire to see me succeed in all elements of seduction, in becoming a better and natural lover of women. James has an immense understanding of women, of what makes them tick, and his game is more of an indirect style, a true Casanova in the making. Combine the experience and knowledge of the crew, and it's near impossible that you could fail. Throughout the whole two week tour, they were there for everyone, fighting through all the misconceptions and inhibitions of our minds. They were warriors fighting for our cause, to become real men, men who were not afraid of women, but men who loved women as well. To me that was the magic pill, more than a quick fix, and it opened up a dusty doorway hidden in the cobwebs of my mind that I never really knew was there. Never had I imagined so many successful approaches, interactions and dates with model like women. And as for the intimate encounters, well, that one stays between me and her, and the bed covers. The legacy of what they taught me, from what I learned from them, will live on in my mind forever. The question now is, are there enough women?
Caz. 31. Melbourne. 5th August 2008
Walter. 27. London. 15th August 2008
A Truly unique and transformational experience. Being immersed in such a way and confronting you barriers day in day out instils principles that a bootcamp just can’t begin to tap.
All aspects of becoming a seducer are explored and in a way that works with our own unique desires and core beliefs. I felt that they genuinely wanted to drill down to who we were and give us the bespoke guidance needed to emerge as the men we wish to be. And through a series of exercises we were constantly tested to our limits.
The environment was perfect for this kind of learning. Every day you are bombarded with the most beautiful women in the western world. Coming from the UK, their beauty, femininity and grace was a most welcome change. Countless opportunities would present themselves everywhere we went. We worked bars, hotels, parks, landmarks, shops, trains, boats, beaches, baths, subways… It was relentless.
What’s more, they were by no means easy either. Eastern Bloc women know what a real man looks like and by the sheer need to evolve or die, we all had to step up each and everyday. And James and the Natural boys were there to call out our bullshit every time we need it. Their commitment to our learning was nothing short of heroic; they went far beyond the call of duty for us all.
Their attention to our learning was first class and I personally felt that having such a wealth of experience to draw upon was really where the real value of this trip lies. They all have quite different approaches to seduction and watching them in action completely shifted my worldview. By the end of the trip my dreams are now firmly in my realm of possibility and I strive for them everyday.
These are not ex-nerds who learnt some fancy tricks from a book, they are naturals through and through. They live and breath what they preach and after learning from them I feel the most effective way to gain powerful beliefs is directly from those who have it engrained in them and not from those who’ve had them crow bared in with a bit of NLP.
For the amount of time we spent in field with them and for the strong sense of camaraderie and memories (e.g. blagging my way out of getting arrested), it was fantastic value for money. I am by no means a complete product but I am definitely on the path to so many great adventures.
Walter. 27. London. 15th August 2008
