Introducing the coaches- Jess
Hi everyone, I’m Jess the first female trainer to join The Natural Lifestyles. I have been working for The Natural since its inception several years ago and now with TNL. My work as a trainer involves working with all elements of seduction including; body language, conversation, touch escalation, (giving on the fly corrections to clients in role-playing scenarios, as well as in the field) and as a stylist and style coach. And yes, as the first female trainer I am the official wing-girl! Through first hand experience alongside its members, I understand the world of the seduction community, and I understand and empathise with the motivations behind it. Instead of being shocked and dismissive like many women, I applaud men who are seeking to improve themselves and their chances with women.
Many women are unaware of why they are attracted to certain types of men (or women) in the first place. So it can be hard for them to communicate to guys what needs to be done to attract them. Then there are women like me, who like all great seducers/seductresses have looked carefully at the courtship process and come to see the patterns emerge. Through the time I’ve taken to involve myself in this community, to understand it, (and to occasionally make efforts to change elements I don’t agree with); through first hand experience and analysis of male and female interactions, I bring a unique female perspective to an industry full of men who think they know what women want. It’s great to be able to give honest, understandable advice to men on this, allowing them the opportunity to find out if what they are doing is actually working in a relaxed, judgement free environment,
As stylist and style coach for TNL, I help clients in group classes like The Masterclass and with private clients to update their clothing style to deliver maximum sexual impact on women. My background is in both fashion and costume design. I have a degree in costume design and theatre production from the Victorian College of the Arts, and I now work as a freelance designer. My commissions range from high end custom fashion to local circus weirdos! I’m also passionate about performance and theatremaking. I manage and perform in a dance troupe called V Dentatas and have been performing in the Melbourne burlesque and dance scene for several years, Appearing at Melbourne’s Big Day Out festivals, supporting band album launches, hosting performance extravaganzas and very excited to be heading to the Glastonbury festival to perform this year!
My main focus when working with guys to improve their style is to help them find a look and image that suits them as an individual. I am not always so interested in what is “in fashion” so much as what really suits the individuals interests, lifestyle, personality and body shape. This allows me to help them develop a great sense of style that is timeless, sexy and congruent with who they truly are.
I look at male sexual archetypes that have deep positive emotional impact on women and help find one (or more) of these hardwired attraction styles to suit my clients. In future articles I’ll be looking in more detail at why it’s so important to do this and how certain visual cues delivered by your clothing can affect your chances with a woman by serious percentage points.
I really enjoy seeing the progression of clients, the journey they go through, their progression in so many skills and behavioural change. It is so satisfying to witness the confidence and social skills gained by our clients, both towards women and in all other areas in their lives. There is nothing more rewarding or important to me than being involved in coaching men to gain improved social skills, be great conversationalists, effective listeners and have the skills to approach any woman or social group with confidence, style and charisma. As a woman I feel my role as a social coach is a service to womankind just as much to men!
I look forward to contributing to this blog and promise to send in reports from my adventures in Europe this summer, with lots of hot tips on how to make the ladies swoon, European styles!!!
xoxo
Jess.
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