Monthly Archives: June 2010

Hey guys, Liam here. Since first meeting the TNL crew whilst doing The Masterclass a couple of years back, I’ve moved up quickly into my role as infield coach. I’ve been coaching with The Natural Lifestyles for about a year now, as well as coaching the last six Approach Energy courses with Tim.

My philosophy is based on the idea that people are already perfect, they just don’t know it yet. So it’s my job to help them discover that for themselves.

I have a rep for being a ‘social freedom’ guy, who pushes the acceptable norms to the extreme, finding the chinks in the social matrix and bending them to my will. I also specialise in implementing ultra direct, rapid escalation to sleep with girls within 10-20 minutes of meeting them. However, this is a strange paradox, as these traits are very ‘outer game’ focused, and I consider myself primarily an ‘inner game’ coach.

While I see the value in giving students plenty of practical infield experience, I prefer to focus more on the mindsets these actions represent. I show clients how they can go about creating and solidifying those into their identity for permanent change.

When it comes to coaching infield I’m pretty extreme, pushing students above and beyond their comfort zone. They protest, argue and plead with me before hand, but afterwards they are grateful for having their mind expanded (and the 10 second make outs, single night seductions and phones full of numbers seem to put a smile on their faces as well ).

I’m a big believer that any seduction coach should be able to walk what he talks. I pushed myself incredibly hard (with the assistance of the TNL crew) through my journey from chump to ladies man, trying to be as brutally honest with myself as possible. This honest appraisal of my abilities and deficiencies has been the biggest factor in my steep learning curve, meaning that I focused in on my weakness without excuses and found ways to transcend them. My coaching style reflects this. I am very blunt and straight to the point, because I think this is what guys need to hear to really fast track their progress. Don’t worry, I’m fun, sympathetic and reasonable as well but I know how to play bad cop when needed.

This is all geared towards cultivating the kind of self-awareness and ultimately self-acceptance that allows you to move past any mental blocks to reach your true potential.

Your mindsets and beliefs are the biggest factor on your game, they ultimately craft your lifestyle, so my primary coaching focus is improving those aspects of you and helping you integrate them into you permanently.

In future articles I’ll be exploring the various methods I used to accelerate my own and hundreds of clients inner transformation, as well as practical tools for social freedom, rapid escalation and sexual state control techniques that have been the cornerstone of my game.

I’m also very commited to the philosophy and practice of polyamory (i.e having multiple partners in ethical alternative relationships) and for guys interested in multiple relationships that don’t involve deception, I’ll be sharing some of the mindsets and secrets on this as well. Keeping in line with my radical honesty values, I’ll share all the lessons, mistakes and breakthroughs I’ve had that can help you to fast track your success.

Hope you guys enjoy the blog and I look forward to hearing about your own journeys to becoming the man you’ve always wanted to be.

Liam

Hi everyone, I’m Jess the first female trainer to join The Natural Lifestyles. I have been working for The Natural since its inception several years ago and now with TNL. My work as a trainer involves working with all elements of seduction including; body language, conversation, touch escalation, (giving on the fly corrections to clients in role-playing scenarios, as well as in the field) and as a stylist and style coach. And yes, as the first female trainer I am the official wing-girl! Through first hand experience alongside its members, I understand the world of the seduction community, and I understand and empathise with the motivations behind it. Instead of being shocked and dismissive like many women, I applaud men who are seeking to improve themselves and their chances with women.

Many women are unaware of why they are attracted to certain types of men (or women) in the first place. So it can be hard for them to communicate to guys what needs to be done to attract them. Then there are women like me, who like all great seducers/seductresses have looked carefully at the courtship process and come to see the patterns emerge. Through the time I’ve taken to involve myself in this community, to understand it, (and to occasionally make efforts to change elements I don’t agree with); through first hand experience and analysis of male and female interactions, I bring a unique female perspective to an industry full of men who think they know what women want. It’s great to be able to give honest, understandable advice to men on this, allowing them the opportunity to find out if what they are doing is actually working in a relaxed, judgement free environment,

As stylist and style coach for TNL, I help clients in group classes like The Masterclass and with private clients to update their clothing style to deliver maximum sexual impact on women. My background is in both fashion and costume design. I have a degree in costume design and theatre production from the Victorian College of the Arts, and I now work as a freelance designer. My commissions range from high end custom fashion to local circus weirdos! I’m also passionate about performance and theatremaking. I manage and perform in a dance troupe called V Dentatas and have been performing in the Melbourne burlesque and dance scene for several years, Appearing at Melbourne’s Big Day Out festivals, supporting band album launches, hosting performance extravaganzas and very excited to be heading to the Glastonbury festival to perform this year!

My main focus when working with guys to improve their style is to help them find a look and image that suits them as an individual. I am not always so interested in what is “in fashion” so much as what really suits the individuals interests, lifestyle, personality and body shape. This allows me to help them develop a great sense of style that is timeless, sexy and congruent with who they truly are.

I look at male sexual archetypes that have deep positive emotional impact on women and help find one (or more) of these hardwired attraction styles to suit my clients. In future articles I’ll be looking in more detail at why it’s so important to do this and how certain visual cues delivered by your clothing can affect your chances with a woman by serious percentage points.

I really enjoy seeing the progression of clients, the journey they go through, their progression in so many skills and behavioural change. It is so satisfying to witness the confidence and social skills gained by our clients, both towards women and in all other areas in their lives. There is nothing more rewarding or important to me than being involved in coaching men to gain improved social skills, be great conversationalists, effective listeners and have the skills to approach any woman or social group with confidence, style and charisma. As a woman I feel my role as a social coach is a service to womankind just as much to men!

I look forward to contributing to this blog and promise to send in reports from my adventures in Europe this summer, with lots of hot tips on how to make the ladies swoon, European styles!!!

xoxo

Jess.