New TNL blog

Welcome to the long awaited Natural Lifestyles blog!

Based in Melbourne, Australia but teaching in over 10 countries The Natural Lifestyles is a world leader on natural seduction and complete lifestyle evolution. We teach unique programs in authentic, natural seduction covering all aspects of what it takes to become a sexy, positive and above all real ladies man.

From taking guys out into live social situations, coaching them in real time how to charm and seduce gorgeous women, to deep internal change work with our “Inner Game” programs, right through to complete style makeovers, classes on sensual massage, sexual mastery, physical and internal confidence; we work on all areas you need to improve to find (and keep) the partners of your dreams, whilst living the lifestyle you desire.

By definition TNL is a seduction company, i.e we exist within the worldwide industry that coaches men how to improve their love lives. With the success of mainstream exposure like Neil Straus’s The Game, the underground “Seduction Community” has become widespread and has turned into big business. Men from all over the world became passionately involved in these global networks of “Pick Up Artists” (PUA’s), drawn in by the promise of sexual abundance and choice that many previously thought was only possible for the rich and beautiful.

Suddenly shy nerdy types, high school outcasts and men of all stripes unsatisfied with their sexual lives flocked to the many seduction gurus that appeared to have all the answers. They did indeed have answers. The problem being that many of them were flawed answers, which didn’t provide the bigger picture on what really made one man sexy, attractive and confident over another. Still, countless men found faith and hope in these new seduction methods and dozens of copycat operators sprang up around the globe to fill the need for pick up coaching that suddenly appeared.

Out of the early days of the community came a series of innovators and progressive thinkers who gradually expanded on the initial rigid methods of scientifically calculated “game”, to incorporate the art and philosophy of effortless ladies men. They were known as Naturals.  It is at this point (several years ago) that our crew started teaching more free form, adaptable principle based seduction (as opposed to technique based i.e using lines and routines to project the persona of a seductively successful man) which allowed men to express their personality better, without needing to use someone else’s lines or pretend to be something they weren’t. 

Although we operate in this market and are well respected and included in it (For example I will be speaking this year at the world PUA Summit in Hollywood) The Natural Lifestyle vision and training programs have a far broader scope than pickup lines and tricks to get girls into bed. Much of the industry is unfortunately dominated by over hyped charlatans and incredibly well marketed corporations, churning students through one size fits all programs with outrageous price tags. Many of these “gurus” are far better at internet and partnership marketing than they are at being role models and good teachers and a healthy amount of skepticism is advised when first trying to navigate this fascinating sub-culture. 

Despite the snake oil salesmen, the focus of the industry has in recent years, gradually moved to more holistic lifestyle ideas as new thinkers come in and push the boundaries. For all its gimmicks, plastic personalities and mixed agendas, the seduction community is emerging as a revolutionary men’s movement that is changing old ideas about the battle of the sexes, what it means to be a successful man and how to get what you want out of life.

At TNL, we are at the forefront of this communities evolution but are not limited to it. Our training programs and ideas move out into a myriad of complimentary areas such as style, sexual mastery, spirituality, lifestyle design, goal actualization, life coaching, masculine/feminine social dynamics and much more.

In this blog and through our programs we intend to share our ideas on these universally important topics, to make sure that greater numbers of men are living boldly in truth and bringing fantastic experiences to the women they meet.  

You’ll receive regular updates by all the authors, with practical cutting edge info on all things seduction, style, internal change and lifestyle design.

I invite you to join our growing fraternity of amazing free thinking men and women, to bring about true happiness and connection to your life and the people you share it with

Peace,

James Marshall (CEO, Executive coach)

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